Media today constantly portrays the perfect American Dream and what it looks like: a life where finances are not a worry and we live free and on the edge. The media tells us that we need to be smart, fun, edgy, up to date, dedicated, and a number of other various adjectives in order to accomplish this goal. I get it…we all want to be the next phenomenon and claim our victory. The problem is very few individuals actually know how. Everyone wants to be successful, to thrive